032: Punished by Rewards - Chatting with Alfie Kohn

In this episode, Dan welcomes Michael Bungay Stanier back to the show.
Michael Bungay Stanier is at the forefront of making coaching an everyday leadership behaviour. He is the author of The Coaching Habit... the best-selling coaching book of this century with over 700,000 copies sold and 1,000+ five-star reviews on Amazon. His new book, The Advice Trap, focus on what it takes to stay curious a little bit longer and tame your Advice Monster. In 2019, he was named the #1 thought leader in coaching, and was shortlisted for the coaching prize by Thinkers50.
You can find out more about Michael and his work at https://www.mbs.works/
You can go straight to the Advice Trap resources here: https://www.mbs.works/theadvicetrap
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In this episode Dan chats with the author of Legacy, James Kerr.
In November 2013, James Kerr published Legacy: What the All Blacks Can Teach us About the Business of Life which delves into the mentality of the most successful sporting team of all time and finds universal lessons one can learn from them in business, and indeed, in life. 
You see the Haka here. 
You can find a copy of Legacy here.
You can connect with James in LinkedIN here.
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In this episode Dan & Tim answer questions from our listening community, exploring issues like:
1. What's the difference between a leader & an administrator?
2. Who's best placed to make decisions that affect the 'front-line'?
3. How can you inspire and motivate people who are already overwhelmed? 
4. Are yoga & mindfulness enough to tackle toxic cultures?
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In this episode, Dan chats with Professor Amy Edmondson from Harvard Business School about the importance of Psychological Safety. 
If you do not feel safe in a group, you are likely to keep ideas to yourself and avoid speaking up, even about risks. Furthermore, if mistakes are held against you, you then look to avoid making mistakes and so stop taking risks, rather than making the most out of your talents. Low psychological safety, therefore, gets in the way of both team performance, innovation, learning, and personal success.
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Find out more about Amy's work at the Harvard Business School here.
You can grab a copy of the Fearless Organisation here.
An exploration of the Volkswagen scandal can be found here. 
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In this episode Dan Haesler & Tim Perkins address questions from our listening community that explore:
How do I help my team develop resilience? 
How do we manage boundaries in small communities or when we are now leading our friends?
How do we nurture the energy and enthusiasm of our new young recruits?
How do we create a culture of coaching? 
Resources mentioned during the show:
Option B by Sheryl Sandberg
The Resilience Project by Hugh van Cuylenburg
The Coaching Habit by Michael Bungay Stanier
The Advice Trap by Michael Bungay Stanier
How to Lead Peers Article
Episode 363 of the Coaching for Leaders Podcast with Ed Shein on Humble Leadership
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In this episode, Dan sits down with Peak Performance researcher Dr Adam Fraser who spends his time exploring how people can get the most out of their potential without some of the common collateral damage like relationship breakdowns and mental or physical wellbeing issues. 
He is the author of The Third Space and he has given a TEDx Talk by the same name. 
He works with school leaders through the Flourish Movement and you can find all things Adam at his website: https://www.dradamfraser.com/
In the chat we also refer to this article - The Negative Side of Positive Psychology by Barbara Held. 
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In this episode Dan chats with the Founder of the Positivity Institute Dr Suzy Green. 
Amongst other things, they discuss why Positive Psychology sometimes gets bad press, and why and how leaders should be focused on wellbeing in their workplaces. 
Links from the show: 
Centre for Positive Organisations
Positive Organisational Scholarship
The Positivity Institute
Suzy on Twitter
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In this episode, Dan & Tim take on more questions from the listening community around handling toxic cultures, developing empathy and the role coaching can play in leadership. 
Resources mentioned during the show are: 
How to Develop Self Awareness - HBR Article
The Fearless Organisation - Amy Edmondson
Primal Leadership - Daniel Goleman, Richard Boyatzsis and Annie McKee
The Coaching Habit - Michael Bungay Stanier
The Accountability Dial - Jonathan Raymond
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